Reflections on Twelve Years and Nine Months of Leadership
May 15th, 2012
by Ellen Cavacini, Program Director, Leadership Fort Wayne
Back in 1993, when Leadership Fort Wayne started the youth program, I was the Guidance Director at Concordia High School and one of my duties was to nominate students to YLFW. I thought it was a great program and a great organization and I always told our administrative assistant that if a job at Leadership Fort Wayne came open I was going to apply for it. Well, much to my surprise a few years later I read in a Leadership Fort Wayne alumni newsletter that they were looking for someone to direct the youth program. That was in September of 1999 and as the saying goes the rest is history.
It has been my privilege to direct both the youth and adult programs of Leadership Fort Wayne over these last twelve years. And because I love the mission of LFW, it was very difficult to decide to retire at the end of June. I will truly miss the relationships that I have developed with each class member and with so many community leaders. Albert Schweitzer said: “At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.” I am so thankful for all those wonderful people who rekindled my light on days when the stress of daily living put it out.
I will always remember and be thankful for:
- a high school student who lacked self-confidence but who later told us that it Youth Leadership Fort Wayne helped him find his voice and because of finding his voice he decided to become a teacher
- all the LFW road trip teams and their often funny and fun-filled power point presentations
- all the LFW class project teams, including the airport mural team, the Study Connection spelling bee team, the Greenbuild Coalition team, the Project inFill sustainable home team, the Urban League kitchen team(s), the railroad overpass team(s) and so many others that worked so hard to make our community a better place
- the public servants, economic development leaders, educators, health and human services providers, public safety leaders, and so many other dedicated servant leaders who always said yes when I asked them to share their expertise with our classes
- the student who used what he learned in LEAD and YAR to help him lead student government at his large public university
- the student who wrote an unsolicited recommendation for me on LinkedIn
- all the employees and board members of non-profits who willingly gave of their time to teach our adult and youth class members the true meaning of servant leadership
- all the other LFW program participants who are too numerous to mention, but who took what we taught to heart and are making our community better
After almost thirteen years I’ve heard a lot of leadership theories, but the most important thing I’ve learned about being a good leader is that it’s not all that much different than being a good person. If you want to be a servant leader remember that it’s not about you and like Robert Greenleaf said the best test (and I’m paraphrasing here) is whether or not the people you lead are more likely to become leaders themselves. And one last thing to remember is to use these four simple sentences generously: I was wrong. I’m sorry. I don’t know. I need help.
Be yourself. You’ve got a leader in you.









